Social-Emotional Learning Kit Project

The Northeast Early Childhood Council (NECC) created the Mental Health Task Force (MHTF) to support local children (birth through age 10) and their families. Even before the pandemic, we recognized that many children were entering Preschool and Kindergarten without the social-emotional skills they need to feel confident, build friendships, and succeed in the classroom.

When COVID-19 disrupted routines, school, and social interaction, those challenges grew even more noticeable. In response, NECC & the MHTF created Social-Emotional Learning (SEL) Kits to help families intentionally build these important skills at home. The project has been incredibly well received, and years later, the kits are still in high demand – showing just how strong the need continues to be in our community.

What Is Social-Emotional Learning (SEL)?

Social-emotional learning (SEL) is how children learn to:

  • Understand and talk about their feelings
  • Manage big emotions
  • Solve problems
  • Build positive relationships
  • Show empathy and kindness

SEL is the process of developing the self-awareness, self-control, and interpersonal skills that are vital for school, work, and life success. People with strong social-emotional skills can better cope with everyday challenges and benefit academically, professionally, and socially.

Why is SEL Important?

Social-emotional learning is the foundation for all other learning. Children learn through play, but that is much more difficult without the social skills needed to have successful, positive interactions with others. Fostering children’s social-emotional learning will give them the skills and confidence they need to be happy, successful learners.

How do our SEL Kits help?

Our SEL Kits were designed as a hands-on “toolbox” for families. Each kit includes engaging activities, tools, and resources that make it easy and fun to practice social-emotional skills at home.

What is in the Kits?

A Little Spot of Emotion 8 Plush Toys with Feelings Book Box: Great for helping children identify with their emotions and feelings. Emotions are complex and challenging to explain.   The Little SPOT of Emotion Box Set teaches about happiness, sadness, anger, anxiety, love, confidence, peacefulness, and a mix of it all! The book included features a bonus mirror, along with a FEELINGS POSTER. The poster and mirror help children identify facial expressions. To learn more: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XzyYhB3ovmA

ABC’s of Kindness Hardcover Book by Highlights Press:A diverse & inclusive cast of children show acts of kindness and generosity to spark conversations about empathy and compassion for others. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S2cKBDWb4hQ

Gizmo’s Pawesome Guide to Mental Health:  Gizmo and his fellow therapy dog and K9 First Responder friends use a warm and fuzzy approach to introduce mental health and wellness to youth. This approach makes the Guide engaging, memorable, and not only easy to use, but fun as well. https://www.gizmo4mentalhealth.org/about/

Calm Down Cards:  These portable cards can help children recognize and talk about feelings, provide coping strategies, and acts as a visual to promote self-regulation.

Sand Timer:  Sand timers can be used to help children transition from one activity/event to another.   This empowers children to manage their feelings and develop negotiation and cooperation skills.  

Fidget/Sensory Toys – assorted balls, pop tubes, coil springs, and push pop bubbles: These toys are used to relieve stress, and anxiety, and improve concentration & learning.

Hand Puppets:  Puppets can assist in identifying and naming emotions to help children understand and resolve conflicts respectfully. A puppet can also play a role in restorative approaches to behavior issues and help children manage differences and disagreements.

The Northeast Early Childhood Council (NECC) is a nonprofit organization; this project is made possible by personal, organizational, and school donations and limited grant funding.

We thank everyone for their donations; this project could not happen without the generous support from individuals and organizations in our communities.

If you would like to donate to this project so we can continue to serve even more families across our seven communities, please go to our DONATE page.

Additional SEL Resources

“Sparkler” App: This phone app will help parents monitor their children’s Social-emotional development through the Ages and Stages (ASQ-SE) questionnaire; parents can learn how to sign up here: https://i0.wp.com/www.neccouncil.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/09/NECC_ENGLISH_Sparkler-page-1.jpg

Teaching Emotions: Activity Ideas to Share with Families Author: National Center for Pyramid Model Innovations https://challengingbehavior.cbcs.usf.edu/docs/activity-ideas-families.pdf

Taking a Break: Using a Calm Down Area at Home https://challengingbehavior.cbcs.usf.edu/docs/Calm-Down-Area_Tipsheet.pdf

The CT Early Learning and Development Standards (CT ELDS): These were developed to help families, communities, and schools work together to support children’s early learning and growth. https://www.ctoec.org/ct-elds-strategies-for-learning-at-home/